This article assumes the NEET is not abusive, violent, or addicted to hard substances. If those conditions exist, this is no longer a NEET situation but a clinical intervention situation. Seek professional help immediately.
The rat race will always be there. But your child’s nervous system? That is fragile. Prioritize the nervous system. The work will come later. Or it won't. And if it doesn't, but they are happy... isn't that the point of parenthood after all? How to Raise a Happy NEET
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