Bishokuke No Rule »

For the first 30 seconds after the first bite, you must achieve "Seijaku no Aji" (Taste of Silence). You stop talking. You stop looking at your phone. You stop moving your hands.

If the chef serves a fatty tuna roll with wasabi inside, you do not scrape the wasabi out. That wasabi was placed there to cut the fat. To remove it is to say you know better than the chef. You don't. The only acceptable response is "Osusume onegaishimasu" (Please give me your recommendation). Dining alone is simple. Dining in a group is where the Bishokuke reveals its social teeth. bishokuke no rule

Why? Because the Bishokuke is a martial art of the mouth. Both hands must be controlled. The right hand wields the chopsticks; the left hand supports the rice bowl or the tea cup. If you are eating a dry food like tempura from a plate, the left hand remains invisible. This prevents spills and maintains "Ma" (the graceful pause) between bites. Finally, the most modern and binding rule. After the meal, a member of the Bishokuke has a sacred duty to the community. For the first 30 seconds after the first